My Story
Many of us have experienced traumatic events even at the earliest of ages. As a child, I
experienced things no young girl should have to endure. I carried the pain from my
childhood in silence, smiling through the agony. Feeling deeply insecure and
inadequate, I discovered very early on that love must be earned and learned how to
self-sacrifice in order to please others. I allowed my boundaries to be repeatedly and
callously ignored because I was afraid I would be left alone if I spoke up. I became
disconnected from my own feelings and needs, abandoning myself and my dreams
somewhere along the way. Don’t worry, though, my story doesn’t end here.
After spending years searching for love in all the wrong places, I left an abusive
relationship becoming an unwed mother at age 23. As a profoundly wounded, insecure,
and anxious young woman, I continued to lose myself in relationships where I felt
disrespected and powerless. By the time I was 46, I had two failed marriages. After my
second divorce, I set out on a mission to find out why I kept choosing the same type of
men, when I came across Conscious Uncoupling. What I discovered was more
empowering than I could have imagined. Working through the steps of the process, I
identified and took responsibility for the part I played in my prior destructive
partnerships. Notice I said, “for the part I played”. There is no excuse for abuse in a
relationship! However, by lovingly accepting my part in teaching others how to treat me,
I then became empowered to create the life and love I was worthy of. I am now in a
loving, supportive, and mutually respectful relationship, and life is a beautiful adventure!
Do you find yourself in abusive, unbalanced relationships where you’re scared to use
your voice and avoid asking for what you need? Do you lose yourself in others? Do you
have low self-worth and feel the need to please others to earn their love? Have you ever
felt unworthy of love and respect? Do you find yourself making excuses for your
partner’s bad behavior? Do you repeatedly choose the same type of unhealthy partner?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, I know how you feel.
As a certified Conscious Uncoupling coach and Jay Shetty certified life coach, I can
help you navigate the heartbreak, free yourself from limiting beliefs, and guide you to
build new patterns of behavior. If you’d like to create a life where you show up as
authentic, powerful, and more than enough, I encourage you to schedule a free 30-minute discovery call with me.
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